My Religious Journey
Here is a cross post of mine from the Richard Dawkins Forum where I wrote this originally.
By: bcortens
From Catholic to Zealot To Atheist
I don't know if anyone is going to read this its quite long.
Whatever this is my story.
I was born into a catholic family, a very devout catholic family on my fathers side, and on my mothers side a much lighter and liberal version. My life was not full of religious zeal by any means, we almost never talked about religion from what I can remember, went to church on Sundays and did the confirmation thing, I don’t recall having any real passion about the confirmation.
As I got older I never really thought about religion, I was catholic I went to church, it wasn’t a big part of my life. As I recall I was never fond of going to church, it all seemed quite boring and I really didn’t pay attention (to tell the truth I used to day-dream while in church). Despite the fact that my fathers side in general was more dedicated to being catholic it was my mother that would be the most adamant about going to church every week, my dad seemed quite apathetic about the whole thing, though he would back her up when we argued about going to church.
I went to a catholic elementary school that had a religious component, something in one class about the creation of the world by god and there was a religious education class but it wasn’t very long in comparison to the other classes, math, science, English.
Once I entered high school things went on in pretty much the same way, except that now there were no religious education classes, I was pretty apathetic and didn’t really hold much in the way of religious convictions, all up until a fateful day when I met her.
Her, was my first girlfriend, I had never experienced such an intense attraction to one person, it was quite overpowering. She, unlike me, was from a very religious family, they believed in a young earth and didn’t believe in evolution, they were very firm in their belief that being a christian was very very important, it is these people that caused me to become what I would describe as deeply religious. They invited me to there church, a Lutheran church with a pastor that was a fundamentalist, I went to the youth retreats where more fundamentalists repeated the ideas about god and a young earth, how evolution was false and a story for fools etc...
At this point I’m not sure whether or not I should call myself a true believer, there are those that have such strong feelings about god that they weep and are emotionally moved and on the verge of tears, even during this period when I read all the latest creationist literature and was taking part in activities of a fundamentalist church I wasn’t moved emotionally by the idea of god, or of jesus. I was attached to this girl and religion was important to her so I was paying attention to it and I said I believed in god and to a small extent I probably did. I spent the last term of high school as a religious fundamentalist, somehow I managed to not notice any contradictions between the science courses I was taking and the religion I was reading about and trying to become more familiar with.
When I went away to university and I was away from her I became more apathetic again, I never went to church except when I was with her on weekends. I took a biology course that caused me to begin to understand evolutionary theory, after first year we broke up, it wasn’t all that painful, I had grown emotionally detached from having so little contact due to being in a different city.
After this year I stopped caring about religion, again, reverting back to the situation I had before meeting her, apathetic but still calling myself catholic, after a while I stopped calling myself catholic most of the time, I went to church with my parents but didn’t really care about religion at all. Didn’t really think about it all that much.
My complete loss of faith happened in an odd way, I was daydreaming about a super advanced civilization I had created in my mind when I realized that whenever I would think about a super advanced civilization in a daydream or when I tried to make on up I always made a point to say that the more advanced peoples had no religion, and only the less sophisticated did. I noticed that I apologized (mentally) to god for this, catholic upbringing making me feel I should apologize for thoughts, I thought about it for a few moments and decided that I didn’t really believe in god, and that was that.
This may seem an odd way to become an atheist but I simply decided there was no reason to feel guilty and that since I didn’t take the god concept seriously why believe in it. It was really this simple, and kind of weird, I just up and stopped believing.
I soon discovered the works of Richard Dawkins and other atheist thinkers and scientists and was delighted to discover that this was a very rational position to take, even though I came to the position quite lightly. I now care more about religion than I used to, but only when I see it encroaching into areas of public life where it ought not be.
It took me another year to tell my parents, it was in a discussion with my two uncles, Mike and Phil, my parents, my aunt, Wendy, a friend of one uncle and a friend of the other uncle. I cannot remember the names of the friends so I’ll call them Atheist male and religious female. Mike was friends with the atheist friend and Phil was friends with the Religious friend, I came out of the closet about my atheism when my uncle declared it was time for his annual attempt to convert his atheist friend, and my uncle Phil and his religious friend began to take part, I decided to stand up for the atheist, and over the course of the discussion it became evident that my uncles had no comprehension of evolutionary theory. In any case they now knew and overall nothing has changed in my relationship with them.
So that about brings me up to date. I read both creationist literature and atheistic literature and find the former to be quite lacking in real rational thought, its all premised on a proposition with very little evidence, and not one shred of real scientific evidence.
I don't know how relevant this post is and I'm not really as determined to keep this as a strictly ethics blog as was indicated by my first post. The fact that the blog was neglected for so long should be indicative of that, more so I'm probably going to use this as a opinion page for myself.
Enjoy
Lataz